Wednesday 30 October 2013

built for love

We fell in love when we meet someone for whom we are attracted and dropped in front of him / her the barriers that separate us from other.

When we share with that person our innermost thoughts and feelings, we feel that, finally, made a connection with someone.

This feeling gives us great pleasure, to our body chemistry changes, within it produce substances called endorphins. We feel happy and walk all day in a good mood and stunned.

When we are in love we feel that our partner is perfect and the most wonderful person in the world. That's the difference between infatuation and love.

We begin to love when we're in love.

What? This is.

Love requires knowing the other person, time required, requires recognizing the flaws of the beloved, required to see the good and bad of the relationship.

Not to say that falling in love is not good, the contrary is wonderful. However it is only the beginning.

Many people are addicted to being in love. They end their relationship when the magic of having met someone new disappears; when they begin to see flaws in the other person and realize that it is not as perfect as they thought.

True love is not blind.

When you love someone you can see their flaws and accept, you can see their faults and want to help you overcome. At the same time that person see your own flaws and understands.

True love is based on reality, not in a dream of you found your Prince Charming or your enchanted princess.

You found a wonderful person, in accordance, but it is not perfect and neither are you.

You found you soul gemela, twins but also have differences discussed.

To love is to weigh the good and bad of that person and then love her. Love is a conscious decision.

Many times we hear of people who say they fell in love with someone and they can not help.

That is supposed to be a matter of luck?

That is supposed to magically love?

That means that someone else has power over us?

By no means. You feel a great admiration for someone, You want to have a relationship with someone, can be very grateful for what he has done for you, but… not love.

Love is born of coexistence, sharing, give and take, mutual interests, shared dreams.

You can not love someone who does not love you, which is interested in you. True love is reciprocal.

In summary:

*Falling in love is not the same as loving.

*You decide to love.

*You can not love who does not love you.

*Love is not blind.

*Love is based on reality. It, love is based on reality, but also can achieve your dreams.

*So analyzes and seeks ways to find love in the person of your dreams.

“We begin to love not when we find a perfect person, but when we learn to see an imperfect person perfectly.”

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